Author: Mrs. Fresh

  • Thrifty eating is normal

    Food has changed over the years. Preparing food at home used to be the default but now it seems quaint. Just like how “under-consumption is normal consumption”, thrifty eating is normal eating. It’s easier than ever to order in or pick something up curbside. It’s more convenient than ever to treat yourself on a random Tuesday….which sounds like fun, but it’s putting people in serious debt. It’s stopping some young people from learning how to prepare food for themselves.

    Notice that I say “prepare” and not “cook”. Way too many people deflect overspending on food by claiming they don’t like/want to/know how to cook. “Cooking” is loaded. It paints a scene of someone who knows exactly when to flip a pork chop or who can make muffins without a recipe or taste a soup and know what it needs. It triggers people who aren’t practiced in it and that’s just not helpful. You don’t have to cook to feed yourself at home. You just have to prepare yourself some food.

    Here’s some examples of meals you don’t have to cook;

    • Canned soup with crackers
    • Any sandwich with a side of fruit
    • A baked potato
    • Heat and serve rice with heat and serve beans
    • Bagged salad with ready to eat chicken

    I think if someone who is scared of cooking tried a menu like this for a while they would soon find themselves much more comfortable in their own kitchens and preparing their own food. I think what they missed in convenience they’d more than make up for in savings.

    And for those of us experienced home cooks…we can make a sandwich too!

    As someone who likes to cook it’s easy to get caught up in new recipes and trendy ingredients or just really special and delicious meals. That’s not helping anyone’s bank account either.

    We can all benefit from embracing simple, thrifty meals.

  • Underconsumption core Christmas

    Underconsumption core Christmas

    Underconsumption, minimal, frugal, anti-capitalist; whatever you want to call it, I don’t want to go broke over Christmas. I also don’t want to turn my house into Santa’s Workshop trying to DIY a mass of gifts. I picture myself sewing in the evenings after an easy dinner. Stitching rather than shopping. Baking rather than buying. I see myself calm and peaceful as I enjoy the process of creating instead of consuming. There will be time for hot chocolates and Christmas movies too. When I wrap everything up I won’t worry that it’s not enough, I won’t think that I let anyone down, and I won’t feel the ick of having overspent on stuff that no one really needed.

    I’m a good gift giver. By that I mean that I’m good at shopping for people. But I don’t want to shop. Don’t get be wrong; I’ve ordered a few things that were specifically asked for by my husband and daughter. I’ve done some thrifting too but I’ve decided that I’m done. A week before Thanksgiving and I can’t bear the thought of searching the stores for gifts anymore.

    I know I have some leftover wrapping paper and ribbon from last year. I have huge stash of well used gift bags. I can make tags out of paper. I have tins from years past that I can use for giving baked goods. I even have all the fabric and supplies that I need for the things I plan on making.

    We have an emergency fund and a healthy savings and the student loans are close to being paid off. If I were to shop like I usually do I would most likely dip into the savings or at best wouldn’t be able to put any savings away this month. I certainly wouldn’t be able to pay any extra towards the student loans. Living within our means is important. Paying off the student loans is important. I don’t want to exchange my ability to do those things for the ego boost I get when I watch people open the gifts that I shopped so good for them.

    That’s always what shopping comes down to; ego. Ego buys the clothes and the lipstick and all the shiny toys for the girls and boys. That’s the ick. It’s going against my own best interests to feel good in a moment. I want to find my “feel good” in a healthy amount of stoicism.